Funeral announcements
View the latest funeral announcements and service details from Thomas Brown & Sons. Families can use this page to share funeral information, leave messages of condolence, make charitable donations in memory of a loved one, and find details of upcoming services across Melrose and the Scottish Borders.
Upcoming Funerals
Recent Funerals
Attending a funeral FAQs
Below are answers to some of the most common questions when attending a funeral. If you need further guidance, please contact us at any time.
Is it okay to arrive late or leave early?
If you arrive late, enter quietly and take a seat near the back. If you need to leave early, try to do so discreetly.
Can I take photos or use my phone?
It’s best to keep phones on silent and avoid taking photos unless the family has said it’s okay.
What if I can’t attend?
If you’re unable to be there in person, you might consider sending a card, flowers, or a donation in memory of the person.
What happens when I arrive?
You’ll usually be greeted by a member of the family or the funeral team. The order of service may be handed to you, and you’ll be guided to a seat. If you’re unsure, we’re always there to help.
What should I wear to a funeral?
There’s no strict dress code, but most people choose smart, understated clothing – typically darker colours. The most important thing is to dress respectfully and comfortably.